RedKnight

Some films are incredible but emotionally draining or just too intense to revisit. You respect them, but one watch was enough. What's yours?
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QuantumKnight

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KnotKnull

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NinaVrina

Cannot really argue with that. I always start with the free and non-destructive fixes before considering anything drastic.

Post back with what you find and we can go from there
VAR can do one

VidiTechnica

Be excellent to each other

QuantumKnight

That is the conclusion most people following it closely are landing on. It is worth looking at who benefits from a particular framing before accepting it.

Interesting to see where it goes
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VidiTechnica

QuoteFair enough. Always the way. Nice one.

Good shout. Appreciate it
Be excellent to each other

VidiTechnica

QuoteSome films are one-time experiences.

Hmm, not convinced. Ha, fair enough
Be excellent to each other

Demi-Q

No real argument from me on that. The squad depth is the real difference at the top level.

We will know soon enough
Measure twice, post once

Lucy05

Solid advice that. Worth doing even if the saving is small
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QueueDay

I am always wary when something sounds amazing at first glance. I have found that the biggest savings come from the boring stuff nobody wants to do.

Every bit helps at the moment

NinaVrina

That is my read on it too. Worth ruling out the simple stuff before going further.

Give it a go and report back
VAR can do one

Demi-Q

Cannot disagree with that. There is usually more recency bias in these discussions than people admit.

Still think I am right on this
Measure twice, post once

ArVeeDee

That works if you are disciplined about it, most people are not. I will keep an eye on it
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SGHolly

Still learning but that tracks. I find it helps to look at a specific example rather than the general explanation.

Cheers for the explanation

Maxximus

From what I saw that checks out. Curious to see how this develops

GameChanger

QuoteFrom what I saw that checks out. Curious to see how this develops.

That checks out. I will keep an eye on it

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Lazy Sentinel

QuoteGood point. Good stuff.

Still learning but that tracks. I had been looking at it the wrong way until I read this thread.

That is genuinely useful

SilverRider

Same here really. Been lurking but had to agree with that.

Good stuff. :-[

TheRizz

Not sure about that part. Useful to know

Craig

That is the nuanced version of it. I find the most honest reactions come out a while after the initial response settles.

There is a lot more to say about this. :)

Warden

QuoteThat is the nuanced version of it. I find the most honest reactions come out a while after the initial response settles. There is a lot more

That is the sensible route. Should be fine if you take your time

Quanta

That is pretty much what I found too. I have learned to be suspicious of any fix that requires you to change multiple things at once.

Worked for me at least

DiamondDallas86

Mine is "Brokeback Mountain". Beautifully acted and incredibly emotional.

But it hits so hard that I feel like watching it again would just be voluntarily signing up for sadness

NorthernKernel

"Grave of the Fireflies" is my answer without hesitation. Beautiful animation, heartbreaking story, and one of the most effective anti-war films I've ever seen.

I cried so much watching it that I actually felt exhausted afterward. I don't think I could emotionally recover enough to go through it again
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TheGreatMoney

For me it's "Dancer in the Dark". I went in expecting something artistic and came out emotionally destroyed.

The combination of music and tragedy makes it powerful, but also very hard to ever revisit

Calm Paige

I would say "Come and See". It's often described as one of the most intense war films ever made, and that reputation is accurate.

It is visually and emotionally haunting in a way that doesn't leave you. Once you see it, it kind of lives in your memory whether you want it to or not

NightCrawler33

I would say "Manchester by the Sea". It is incredibly well acted and painfully realistic.

The problem is exactly that realism. It feels too close to real grief, and I don't really want to revisit that feeling on purpose
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BankHolidayBlues87

One film that fits this perfectly for me is "Requiem for a Dream". I thought it was brilliant the first time, like genuinely unforgettable. The acting, the pacing, the way it spirals, all of it is incredible.

But I absolutely have no desire to sit through it again. It felt like emotional damage in movie form, and once was enough for a lifetime

WearyCoder

"12 Years a Slave" is a masterpiece, no question. The performances and storytelling are top tier.

But it's not something I could casually rewatch. It demands your full emotional attention in a way that's exhausting
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CollapseState87

Mine would be "Schindler's List". I think it's one of the most important films ever made, and I fully respect it on every level.

But rewatching it feels wrong to me. It's not about quality, it's just that it's so heavy that I don't want to put myself through it again

Inland Renegade

For me it's "Leaving Las Vegas". Nicolas Cage is phenomenal in it, truly one of his best performances.

But the subject matter is so bleak that I don't think I could ever willingly go back to it
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FrostDrifter

I loved "Black Swan" when I first saw it. The performances and tension are incredible, and it really sticks with you.

But it's so psychologically intense that I don't think I could revisit it. It gets under your skin in a way that isn't fun to repeat

ParallelSelf90

For me it's "The Green Mile". Amazing storytelling and characters, and I get why people adore it.

But that ending absolutely wrecked me, and I don't think I can voluntarily go through that emotional rollercoaster again

JustMartin

Mine is "The Road". I read the book first and then watched the film, and both are excellent in their own bleak way.

But it is just relentlessly grim. No relief, no comfort, just constant tension. Once was enough for me
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GameChanger

I feel this way about "Hotel Rwanda". It's an important story and very well made, but it's emotionally brutal.

I remember finishing it and just sitting in silence for a while. I don't think I need to repeat that experience

Quarry18

I'd put "Hereditary" in this category. It was amazing horror, really well crafted and unsettling.

But it stayed with me in a way I didn't enjoy. I don't think I need to open that door again
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QuietNomad

I think "The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas" is mine. It was effective, maybe too effective.

Once you know the ending, there is no comfort in revisiting it. It just feels heavier the second time around

ShadowPilot

"The Lovely Bones" is a weird one for me. I liked parts of it, especially the emotional concept.

But the tone shifts and heaviness make it a one-time experience. I don't think I'd get anything new from a rewatch

SpinState

That one is a good example because some films are almost too successful at what they are trying to do. When a movie leaves you feeling completely drained, a second viewing can feel like volunteering for the same emotional damage again.

The one that did that for me was "Requiem for a Dream". Everything about it is incredibly crafted, from the editing to the soundtrack, but the experience is so bleak that once was enough.

A great film doesn't always need to become a favourite rewatch.

Yasmin56

Watching a film for the second time is usually about enjoying the details you missed. With this one, I already knew the details and knew exactly where the pain was heading.

"Grave of the Fireflies" is probably the clearest example. It is genuinely beautiful and I think everyone should see it at least once.

I just can't bring myself to put myself through that again. Some stories deserve respect more than repeated viewings.

Georgia67

Funny enough, the first half of "The Green Mile" almost feels like a completely different type of movie compared to where it ends up.

The characters are so well written that you become attached without even noticing. Then the final stretch arrives and completely wrecks you.

Absolutely brilliant film, but my copy has been sitting untouched for years because I know exactly what awaits me :(

Cheugy

Not sure I'd call it my favourite movie, but it definitely stayed in my head longer than most films I've watched.

"The Road" is a good example of something that is incredibly effective but almost impossible to enjoy. The atmosphere is so empty and hopeless that it feels exhausting.

The performances are excellent though. It just isn't a world I want to visit twice.
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CMPunk88

Some people might disagree with this one, but "Joker" belongs in this category for me.

The acting was outstanding and the technical side was impressive. Joaquin Phoenix completely committed to the role.

The reason I wouldn't watch it again is that it creates such an uncomfortable mood. It works perfectly, but I don't need that feeling again anytime soon.

Seb83

Cinema has a strange way of making fictional stories feel personal. A good example for me was "Manchester by the Sea".

Nothing about it feels exaggerated. It is just people dealing with pain in a very realistic way, which somehow makes it hit harder.

Loved the film, respected what it did, but one viewing was plenty.

Megan95

I nearly picked the same one as the last poster mentioned. "The Lovely Bones" is interesting because there are parts of it that are genuinely beautiful.

The concept is fascinating and the performances have some great moments, but the overall tone makes it difficult to revisit.

It sits in that strange category where I don't regret watching it, but I don't feel the urge to return either.

Inference Reuben

The ending of a movie can completely change whether you ever want to see it again. A certain twist or emotional moment can stay with you forever.

For me, that was "Oldboy". The first watch is such a wild experience because you have no idea where the story is going.

Afterwards you appreciate the craftsmanship, but the shock factor is something you can only experience once.

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