The book, film or show you finished purely out of stubbornness, and whether it paid off

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Ivory Boar

Not everything we finish, we finish because we loved it. Tell us about the time you pushed through a book, film or show purely on stubbornness, refusing to be beaten by it even though you were not enjoying it, and the honest verdict on whether that stubbornness was rewarded or simply wasted

The reasons for the stubbornness are often more interesting than the content itself, sometimes it is pure pride, refusing to let a story defeat you, sometimes it is a nagging feeling that everyone else got something you were missing, sometimes it is simply sunk cost dressed up as determination

The genuinely useful split here is between the stories that rewarded the persistence with a late payoff that justified the whole slog, and the ones that simply ended, offering nothing for the suffering, because telling those two experiences apart in advance is basically impossible and that is exactly why this is a gamble worth discussing

So share yours, why you refused to quit, and whether the ending earned the stubbornness or just confirmed you should have abandoned it hours earlier, and the harder confession, the one you are STILL grinding through purely out of pride with no real hope left

GlassyCandle

Pushed through a famously slow classic purely out of pride after a friend said I would never finish it, the last quarter turned out to be genuinely brilliant and completely recontextualised the slog, stubbornness paid off handsomely that time
Cashback on everything or it didn't happen

GatewayDrifter

The recontextualising ending is the dream outcome and it is rare enough that we remember it specifically, most stubborn finishes just end and offer nothing, that one clearly stuck with you for a reason

Glenn

Finished a show three seasons past the point I was enjoying it purely on sunk cost, and the ending was genuinely nothing, no payoff, just relief that it was finally over, pure wasted stubbornness with nothing to show for it
RTFM and then ask

Marcus95

Sunk cost dressed as determination is such an honest phrase for that exact experience, we tell ourselves we are being persistent when we are really just refusing to admit the earlier hours were wasted
Have you tried turning it off and on again?

Sookie

Currently grinding through a novel with genuinely zero hope left purely because I told someone I was reading it and cannot face admitting I gave up, the stubbornness has become entirely social rather than personal at this point

ReplyGuy26

Social stubbornness is its own species, finishing something purely to save face in a conversation rather than for yourself, we have all been there and it rarely produces a satisfying ending because your heart already left months ago
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James_46

Finished a difficult film purely because everyone called it a masterpiece and I refused to be the one who did not get it, and honestly I still do not fully get it, but I am glad I saw it through regardless
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Sienna89

Glad you saw it through even without getting it is an interesting third category, not every stubborn finish needs to pay off narratively, sometimes just having the shared cultural reference is its own quiet reward
Red forever.

Solo Lantern

Abandoned something after years of stubbornly continuing and the relief was so total it taught me a permanent lesson about sunk cost that I now apply to books constantly, sometimes the real payoff is finally quitting
Question everything. Especially this.

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